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Before I go : a novel / Colleen Oakley.

Oakley, Colleen. (Author).

Summary:

On the eve of what was supposed to be a triumphant "Cancerversary" with her husband Jack to celebrate three years of being cancer-free, Daisy suffers a devastating blow: her doctor tells her that the cancer is back, but this time it's an aggressive stage four diagnosis. She may have as few as four months left to live. She's terrified of what will happen to her brilliant but otherwise charmingly helpless husband when she's no longer there to take care of him. It's this fear that keeps her up at night, until she stumbles on the solution: she has to find him another wife.

Record details

  • ISBN: 9781476761664 (hardcover)
  • Physical Description: 312 pages ; 24 cm
  • Publisher: New York : Gallery Books, 2015.
Subject:
Breast > Cancer > Patients > Fiction.
Husband and wife > Fiction.
Motivation (Psychology) > Fiction.
Goal (Psychology) > Fiction.
Genre:
Domestic fiction.
Psychological fiction.
Love stories.

Available copies

  • 7 of 7 copies available at BC Interlibrary Connect. (Show)
  • 1 of 1 copy available at Radium Hot Springs Public Library.

Holds

  • 0 current holds with 7 total copies.
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  • Booklist Reviews : Booklist Reviews 2014 October #1
    Having survived breast cancer when she was 23, Daisy Richmond is shocked to discover, a few years later, that the disease has returned. This time, she has "Lots of Cancer" and just a few months to live. She decides to devote those months to finding a new wife for her husband, Jack, who is about to graduate from veterinary school. With the help of her best friend, Kayleigh, a kindergarten teacher, Daisy scouts coffee shops and bookstores, then decides to take her search online. When the perfect match turns out to be Pamela, who is the principal of Kayleigh's school and also, it turns out, Jack's fellow volunteer at the animal shelter, Daisy has to deal with jealousy over what appears to be a growing attachment. She also has to acknowledge that she has been pushing Jack away. Though a plot summary makes the novel sound like a strange amalgam of cancer story and rom-com, Oakley has produced an affecting work that, while avoiding maudlin sentimentality, makes the reader care about Daisy and her determination to live while dying. Copyright 2014 Booklist Reviews.
  • Kirkus Reviews : Kirkus Reviews 2014 November #2
    A dying woman tries to find a new wife for her husband in this sobfest from debut novelist Oakley.Daisy already beat breast cancer once in her 20s, but when she finds out the cancer is back, she goes into a full-blown panic. How could she get cancer twice before she even turns 30? She soon finds out that her cancer is particularly aggressive this time—it's in her liver, lungs, bones and brain, giving her an estimated four to six months to live. Daisy immediately begins to worry, but not just about her impending death—she's far more concerned about what her husband, Jack, will do when she's gone. Who will pick up his socks, make sure he eats and take care of him when she isn't around? She embarks on a seemingly impossible task—finding a new wife for her husband. Daisy begins evaluating every woman she meets and pulling away from Jack in an attempt to help him start a new life without her. Of course, it turns out that none of this is quite as simple as it seem s. Daisy's quest to find Jack a new wife may be a bit far-fetched at times, and the novel's central conflict is wrapped up a little too neatly, but the emotion always rings true. It's impossible not to feel Daisy's pain, confusion and sadness as she thinks about what life will be like after she's gone. Oakley also adds in some much-needed humor to lighten up the necessarily depressing subject matter. This emotional novel will make readers laugh through their tears. Copyright Kirkus 2014 Kirkus/BPI Communications.All rights reserved.
  • Library Journal Reviews : LJ Reviews 2014 October #1

    At 27, psychology student Daisy Richmond receives her second diagnosis of breast cancer in four years. As her cancer is triple negative for hormone therapy and has spread throughout her body, she has few treatment options. Her husband, Jack, is a double-doctoral candidate in veterinary medicine mere months from graduation. Mere months. Even with a clinical trial, will Daisy survive that long? Daisy, Jack, and Daisy's best friend Kayleigh tiptoe around the inevitable. Patients often bemoan the inability of family and friends to know what to say upon hearing the cancer news. Yet Daisy is the one detaching herself from her always weepy mom, irresponsible Kayleigh, and beleaguered and confused Jack. VERDICT The specifics of Daisy's disease are suggested here rather than described in detail, but cancer is palpable on every page. Readers will want simultaneously to hug Daisy and give her a good shake when she goes off the rails. Is she a bit too glib, too self-possessed for her situation? Oakley's debut sets her heroine off on a quest that might be a bit foolhardy, but Daisy bravely endures and discovers the healing power of love. Highly recommended for laugh-out-loud fans and the tearjerker set.—Bette-Lee Fox, Library Journal

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  • Publishers Weekly Reviews : PW Reviews 2014 September #2

    Oakley's touching debut novel follows Daisy Richmond, who beats breast cancer at age 23, marries her college sweetheart, Jack, applies to grad school, and generally moves on with her life until shortly before her four year "cancerversary" when she learns that the cancer's back. This time it's untreatable—her doctor estimates she has no more than six months to live. While Daisy once found it fun to imagine all the trips she'd take if she knew her time was up, she's now more worried about what will happen to Jack after she's gone—who will put his dirty socks in the hamper, arrange repairs on their fixer-upper, and make sure he eats something other than cereal. With help from her best friend, Kayleigh, Daisy begins searching for a new wife for Jack. But after scoping out dog parks, coffee bars, and dating sites, Daisy is woefully unprepared for how she feels once she actually finds a seemingly perfect woman for him and the two appear to hit it off. The story moves forward in the expected direction—even the twist at the end is not a shocker—but Oakley expertly tugs at the heartstrings with well-rounded characters and a liberal dose of gallows humor. (Jan.)

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